Monday, June 2, 2008

Can Dementia Ever Be Funny?

The inspiration for this post was a talk that I recently gave to a conference for caregivers of loved ones with Alzheimer's Disease and other dementias. The speakers included a psychiatrist, a geriatrician, and a panel of four caregivers--one of whom was me.

I learned a lot that evening. The presentations and audience questions taught me that the kinds of bittersweet anecdotes I described about my mother's dementia are the common lot of all who deal with the reality of dementia in a loved one.

And surprising (to me at least) the audience found many of the anecdotes that I reported to be hilariously funny. Many had experienced the same kinds of behavior with their own loved ones with dementia. It was clearly a relief for them to hear these stories spoken aloud.

It helped them to realize they were not alone, and so they laughed--laughter that was unexpected but very welcome--laughter that helped to reduce the tension of these caregiver's daily caregiving stress.

It is my wish that caregivers will see beyond the sadness, tragedy and, yes, comedy sometimes associated with the evening hours of life, and will recognize that dementia, while terrible, does not diminish the essential humanity of the afflicted individual.

2 comments:

Alzheimer's Team said...

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Alzheimer's Team said...

I wanted to say that I think your blog is very well done. I like to find blogs that have a lot of "meat" in the subject. This is one. My dad is suffering from Alzheimer's and it's heart breaking. If interested, you can learn about my findings with Alzheimer's or dementia, go to www.alzheimersteam.com

Thanks!

Krista